On the holiday created to honor fallen veterans, we should pause and thank those who fight for freedom. And then cook some meat outdoors.
But if you’re not throwing the party, you are probably not cooking the meat. (If you ARE throwing the party, don’t forget to include ribs, or you may end up like Sad Grandpa.)
Here are five things you could bring to a Memorial Day celebration:
Mac and Cheese
It goes without saying that you’re going to bring a side dish, or you won’t get invited back, so we’re not going to focus on those. But here are a few tips: Try not to bring the same dish everyone else is bringing. Competition will be heaviest in the macaroni and cheese field.
There are two ways to make your mac and cheese stand out.
You can bring beer, but how much more inventive is a pitcher of rum punch? The punch can be made more or less potent, depending on the audience, and this recipe (as suggested by Primer Magazine), hews to the critical elements of a successful tropical drink, “1 part sour, 2 parts sweet; 3 parts strong and 4 parts weak.”
Since the concept of "the mixtape" now means streaming tunes on your smartphone, you can volunteer your Spotify subscription, in case the host runs out of ideas. It’s also not a bad idea to keep a battery-powered bluetooth speaker in the trunk, in case the host completely spaces out and forgets the music all together.
Consider using an iPod loaded with 2,000 tunes and an aux connector to a boombox or radio -- no bluetooth required.
Remember that music can cause conflict. Think about the last time someone changed a song that you thought was a smash hit and the uproar that ensued. Self-generated music (i.e. when you bring out your acoustic guitar and start strumming “Michael Row Your Boat Ashore”) can also be welcomed or abhorred.
But if you can play and sing and can remember the lyrics to songs by John Prine, Hank Williams, Willie Nelson and other proven campfire-friendly artists, then you could contribute something valuable to the event. (Check with your host.)
Your own cooler
With ice in it. So you can keep your punch and other backup items cold. Consider a lemon icebox cake.
Or a packet of gardenburgers, in case a vegetarian shows up. Or your own beer. Just in case.